In with the In-Laws

To wrap up these blog featurettes on family, I’ve gotta give props to God for His creativity. I didn’t really get to choose my parents or siblings, but God blessed me with an awesome family. I did choose my wife, and was blessed that God lead me to the most beautiful and precious one around. And though I chose my wife, I couldn’t choose who her parents would be. But even they’re awesome and loving too! It’s like God just wanted to bless me with the best people on the planet for family, and He’s made a specific point of saying He’ll do it no matter what degree of choice I have in the matter!

My mother and father in-law are some of the most generous and selfless people I know. They’ve taken me in with arms open wider than I ever imagined of in-laws, and they’ve smothered my wife and me with love and support. Often I’m more afraid that they’ll spoil our young marriage. But they either don’t agree or don’t care, cuz they just keep giving. They have us over all the time (often last-minute), feed us, advise us, entertain us, and give us too much in the way of gifts.

I’m honored that they call me their favorite son, which is fun because my wife is an only child. And I love to call them mom and dad, which can be confusing because they’re not my only parents. And every time I’m with them, I can’t help thinking “This is how it’s supposed to be!” Too many people have in-law problems, or at least consider it good to be on a first name basis. But my mom and dad in-law have become a second family. I mean, the family I grew up with is outstanding, but this is what it’s like to become family. And I think that’s what it’s like in God’s house. They’ve demonstrated His heart in the way that He takes somebody in and drowns them in affirmation and gifts until they feel they belong.

Thanks Mom and Dad!